Wednesday, April 2, 2014

I'm so sorry......

I just had an email from a member of the quilting group whose applique quilts I had just posted about over the last few days.

Evidently the group is terribly upset that I posted pictures of their quilts.

The gal told me that there were signs posted at the show that pictures were for personal use only.

Honestly, I never saw even one of those signs.

If I had, I would never have posted a single pic.

So, to any members of that group that might be checking back on this blog, I've deleted those 3 posts.

And I'm terribly sorry.

regan

26 comments:

  1. And I'm sorry they didn't want to share! The signs need to be larger and prominent, so people can see them.

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  2. Regan, l have been in exactly the same situation, and of course been mortified when contacted. Unfortunately , the first email someone sent was very nasty, and left a bad taste in my mouth for that guild. l remove the posts, as you have done, and now over time, feel they are the loser's as no longer will l promote their quilt show or even recommend it to anyone. Had they been nicer, l would have accepted the reprimand and put it behind me. Its a shame there are some quilters out there, who for what ever reason feel they can be mean and nasty, when all we are doing is sharing our love and passion for this amazing craft, which has brought me mostly joy and amazing friendships. From experience, move on, put it behind you. Your better than that!! Hugs across the oceans. xxx

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  3. I've had this happen, too, and I have mixed feelings about it. If the show was public, then I don't understand the restriction. Unless the signs are prominent at the door and throughout the displays, then the error was theirs and not yours. It reminds me of celebrities who welcome publicity when it sells their films, etc. and then curse the media for taking their photos. You can't have it both ways, people.

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  4. I don't get out to many shows, but the ones I have attended welcomed photos. What are they afraid of, someone might "steal" their design? I've come to believe there are very few original ideas--just reworking old ones.
    Good of you to honor their request. Too bad they don't want to share.

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  5. I loved seeing all those beautiful applique quilts - it was such a treat!

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  6. I thought your posts were appropriate and the quilts were stunning. It's their loss, as it piques the interest in their show...and not everyone is able to attend quilt shows...too bad they have to be snobs.

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  7. I agree whole heartedly with Linda C.
    None of their work was unique in any way. They should take a look at the Australians work they are producing and sharing with the world quilting community.
    Don't give them another thought I for one love reading your blog. I guess that's one quilt show your not be attending again.
    Sending hugs from my side of the ocean too.

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  8. It's an honest mistake. I was going to put photos of quilts from the last big Sydney Quilt Show but Phil stopped me in time. He'd seen the signs everywhere, but I hadn't !! I think it was because I was too busy looking at the quilts to be reading signs. I wonder if it is the way quilt shows are going to be from now on? Did they mention why they didn't want their photos shared?

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  9. I can't understand how showing a quilt to a large and enthusiastic crowd at a show is okay, but showing it to a wider community on a blog isn't? You would think they'd be flattered? Don't let it worry you...it was an honest mistake!

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  10. Regan, I can only imagine how you felt when you received that email.
    You did the right thing by deleating the posts. Put it behind you and move forward... good things await ;)
    Rose

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  11. I'm just stunned! I agree wholeheartedly with with Patchwork and Play. They can show their quilts to the public but then not let them be shared? Huh. Anyway, I think you responded in a very classy way. Hugs!

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  12. I too agree Linda's comments and others. I didn't see anything that wasn't a commercial pattern.
    I appreciate seeing good work and don't understand this unwillingness to share. Hope these comments make you feel better about an honest mistake.

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  13. So sad because we all enjoyed seeing their work.

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  14. That was a personal use, IMHO. If they didnt want pictures taken and posted, there should have been a sign at the show.

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  15. Don't be sorry. This IS your personal use. Any body that disagrees is foolish and should keep their quilts at home, under lock and key. Please! Petty, petty people.

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  16. Very sorry to hear about this--how silly really! After all, they put their quilts on display...I canNOT see the difference. I really enjoyed seeing them all...just let it go; "what goes around comes around" is what I say..hugs, Julierose

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  17. That was nice of you. Always am surprised that people don't want their hard work and talent shared.

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  18. So sorry this happened to you, I can imagine how upsetting it was to get a mean email from a perfect stranger. I'm glad I got to enjoy the quilts from down here in Florida. Hugs.

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  19. My daughter and I were at the AQS quilt show in Omaha a few years ago and a lady started YELLING at me to stop taking pictures. Apparently there were signs posted that some of the quilts were not to be photographed. I, of course, had not seen the signs. Considering how often this happens you would think quilt shows would come up with a better way of notifying people of their rules. And each show is different so you don't always know. If you don't want pictures taken of your quilts don't enter them in shows!

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  20. MY DEAR FRIEND, I am shocked and so sorry this happened to you. I want everyone to know that I have been with Regan at various shows around the country when we were both taking pictures. You get so excited about the beautiful work exhibited that you don't always notice the signs. Regan is the most generous and thoughtful person I know, especially when it comes to giving credit to the individual whose work she is photographing. She makes an extra effort to take pictures of tags and ribbons on the quilts as well as the quilts, if there is a tag attached. I agree with so many of the previous people commenting here. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO SHARE YOUR WORK, WHY EXHIBIT IT IN A SHOW?
    Hugs from your BFF,
    Pat

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  22. I know that I would not of minded the pictures of my quilts being posted, as long as credit was given out there. As well as the correct info on the winner of some of the ribbons. If you would like to I certainly would give you my info and allow you to repost. Some others may feel differntly, but again if credit is given they may agree to it. There was no names of quilt maker or quilter on those pictures.

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  23. I'm sure you meant no harm, just showing what we would have seen if we would have been close enough to attend the show. I love your very apologetic and kind response. I hope I have the enough class to handle a similar situation in the thoughtful way that you did if I ever find myself in something like that. You are a great blogger :-)

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  24. My personal opinion? Quilters need to get off their high horse! You are showing your quilt at a show for the public to see. It's completely ridiculous and pious for them to be upset that you posted photos on your blog. xxoo
    Of course you didn't and don't want to hurt anyone or step on toes. I would have removed the photos from my blog as well, but I may have blasted them first. lol

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  25. You took the high road and handled it very well. This made me realize why some people only post pictures of their own work on their blogs.

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  26. There is a saying in the museum world, "it's spread or it's dead". Most quilters want to share their work with others. That is how we build such wonderful friendships through quilting. Maybe you have helped them realize this opportunity to share with a broader audience.

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